On Your Birthday, Write to Next Year's You
Past a certain age, birthdays get quiet. The cake shrinks, the wishes get practical, and even "happy birthday to me" starts to feel like a formality. But your birthday is still the best day of the year for a conversation with yourself — it's the one milestone that belongs to you alone. More and more people mark it the same way: write a letter to next year's you. What did this year of your life add up to? What did you pull off, what did you fumble, what are you wishing for? Seal it, schedule it for your next birthday, and every year you'll receive a letter from the person you were — a relay race run one year at a time, each age handing off to the next. Keep it up and the letters become a private chronicle only you can fully read; one writer went from twenty to thirty, and those ten letters side by side are more honest than any photo album. Below are birthday letters people chose to share. This year, after the candles, do one more thing: leave a few lines for the you of next year.
How to write this letter
- Take stock of the year: one thing you're proud of, one regret, one person you're most grateful for. Those three lines are a snapshot of who you are at this age.
- Make three wishes in writing — one for work, one for the people you love, one just for you. Score yourself when you open it next year.
- Record your current baseline: where you live, who you see most, what's worrying you lately. The changes will surprise you in twelve months.
- Schedule delivery for your next birthday and make it an annual ritual. Delivery within a year is free.
Real letters from the vault
632 public letters
30岁,生日快乐!
想想时间过得很快,一钻研,你都30了,5年之前的现在你在南京那个家。看到这封信的时候你应该已经成家,或许已经有一个很可爱的小孩,希望你说的是过得很好,也许陪在你身边的不是我,但我依然希望你过得幸福,希望你的那一位也很幸福。 希望你不用误会,写这封信是因为我们两个曾经在
祝你生日快乐。
此时此刻,无论你现在过得是否是你现在想要的生活,这都不能改变今天是你生日这个不争的事实。27岁。一个说小不小,说大不大的年纪。本应该是一个上有老下有老的年龄。一度嘲笑你的爸爸,为什么25岁才结婚。而当时的你不过还是一个懵懵懂懂的少年。渴望长大的孩子,而如今真的到了那个年纪,才发现
写给未来的自己
亲爱的你: 你好! 请不要惊讶于我用这样生疏的语气,仅仅只是我希望,未来,不再是现在的我,你应该更漂亮,更自信,更优秀,更有底气去面对即将步入的社会。我选择在这一天寄给你,这一天你生日,在零点的钟声响起,我希望的第一份生日礼物,是自己曾经的期望,我相信 ,
写给22岁的自己
大琴子,过了今天你就22岁了,不知道是不是如愿以偿的看了《致我们终将逝去的青春》。昨晚无意中翻到了自己17岁那年参加学校运动会时的照片,看着上面青春洋溢的自己,脸上盛着满满的微笑,没来由嘴角上翘,那时候的自己真美好。 17岁的自己渴望上大学,渴望校园恋情,幻想着能有一
给十年后的自己
啊啊啊啊啊,陈秋宁!!!我要疯了,刚刚我在给你写信的时候不小心点到了刷新,我giao,结果我写的一大段话都没有了,气死我了,我要缓一下。OK了我重新来,你好陈大头,我是十年前的你,我现在18岁,是处于大四上册的阶段,现在准备期末考试了,好累啊,黄献莹老师的说课简直就是魔鬼啊,太恐
爱你,我的岳岳
岳岳,现在是2015年9月9日 23:14今天是你的生日,虽然今天已经对你说过了很多次对不起,因为我无法在你的身边陪伴着你,真的非常对不起。(万恶的卖家,我买的礼物这个时间还没有送到,我生气了。)给你发这个邮件,有可能是一时兴起吧,但是就是突然想起来有这个网站,以前我也给自己写
20岁生日快乐!
你好啊!转眼间你就20岁了最近过得怎么样呢?未来对你还算友好吗?哦,不过对你来说现在是过去了…昨天张跟我说我在高一那会很吵很吵她的原话是“我就不知道哪有那多事找我”…嗯…很难评 现在我写这封信的时候是大一上学期末了其实在上大学之前我也没想到我还是放不下嘴上说的放下啊,不留遗憾啊,
写给未来的…
二十九岁的李梦坤你好,我是十九岁的高佳洁。嗨,我是十年前的高佳洁,很意外吧,今天可能还要上班,但就收到了这封邮件,是不是还要上班呢?辛苦了,但今天也要奖励自己啊,因为今天是坤坤二十九岁生日哇,过完这“二十”的最后一年就是“三十”的另一个阶段,祝你好在未来。如果在20年到30年的结
写给宝贝的一封信
我亲爱的宝贝 我写这封信的时候正在和你微信聊天,今天是你的生日宝贝,这封信寄出的时间也是6月20号6点20分,这是我陪你过的第一个生日,这天我们应该很开心吧,不知道我有没有搞砸,不知道你满不满意,我其实是一个不太会表达自己想法的人…但是自从第一次遇见你后,我的生活发生了很
写给未来的冯乐
真的懒得写,哈哈哈哈哈哈...emmmm也不知道靠不靠谱,反正就写着玩玩,你现在过的好吗,那人对你好吗,那人会给UCFP:1 b0404fc-6787-4c3d-a874-38aa63f8bf14-1613397075074你养老吗,那人会给你洗脚...五年后的现在,应该是你的生
秋天是一个让人想要写信的季节,所以我在今天写下了这封秋日来信
霞霞,今天是你的生日,同时也是认识你的第221天,首先祝你生日快乐 ,也预祝你升本成功,考入理想的大学😁 我是个糙人,没那么多弯弯绕绕,一直想跟你说点心里话,关于我怎么看你,怎么看喜欢这件事,有些道理是读一本小说时记下的,我觉得挺对,跟我心里头想的差不多。书里说,不敢
又长大了一岁啦
祝你生日快乐! 我估计是第一个给你祝福的人吧嘿嘿,不知道现在的你在因为什么而苦恼 我和你说哦,现在我还在因为直播烦恼,明明每天都肯定有10w以上,却因为圆子而烦恼,觉得自己被冷落了,要别抛弃了,他要离开我了,我真的觉得女生自己有能力去干一件事情真的太重要了,现在有种要靠男人养
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to write it on the birthday itself?
No — a few days before or after is fine. What matters is the delivery date: set it to next year's birthday, and the arrival becomes the ritual.
Is this only for writing to myself?
Not at all. Plenty of people write to a friend or partner ahead of time, scheduled to land on that person's birthday — a gift that was prepared with a whole year to spare.
What if I forget to write the next one?
The best moment to write next year's letter is right after opening this year's — the feelings are still warm. That's exactly how long-time users keep the chain going.
On Your Birthday, Write to Next Year's You
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