On Your Birthday, Write to Next Year's You
Past a certain age, birthdays get quiet. The cake shrinks, the wishes get practical, and even "happy birthday to me" starts to feel like a formality. But your birthday is still the best day of the year for a conversation with yourself — it's the one milestone that belongs to you alone. More and more people mark it the same way: write a letter to next year's you. What did this year of your life add up to? What did you pull off, what did you fumble, what are you wishing for? Seal it, schedule it for your next birthday, and every year you'll receive a letter from the person you were — a relay race run one year at a time, each age handing off to the next. Keep it up and the letters become a private chronicle only you can fully read; one writer went from twenty to thirty, and those ten letters side by side are more honest than any photo album. Below are birthday letters people chose to share. This year, after the candles, do one more thing: leave a few lines for the you of next year.
How to write this letter
- Take stock of the year: one thing you're proud of, one regret, one person you're most grateful for. Those three lines are a snapshot of who you are at this age.
- Make three wishes in writing — one for work, one for the people you love, one just for you. Score yourself when you open it next year.
- Record your current baseline: where you live, who you see most, what's worrying you lately. The changes will surprise you in twelve months.
- Schedule delivery for your next birthday and make it an annual ritual. Delivery within a year is free.
Real letters from the vault
632 public letters嗯
亲爱的,没想到会收到我的来信吧哈哈~我写了一封信给4年后 你,因为今天是我的生日,也是我们在起的第2年, 我以为今年的生日还是没有你在呢,没想到悄悄的跑到我的城市给我惊 喜,我好感动啊! !你说过等2020年婚礼会选在我生日这天,现在下午啦,这个时候我们应该已经举行完婚礼在送客吧
你好吗?我很好。
亲爱的,生日快乐。这半年过得怎么样呢?还是在痛苦的挣扎吗?还是已经看到了胜利的曙光?半年前的你很痛苦,很彷徨,被现实所捆绑,不甘寂寞又不愿妥协。找到了方向却好像又无从下手,你一定找到了解决的办法,你一定已经成功了吧。努力复习过的雅思考了多少分呢?你一定可以的你是个很聪明的人,却因
TO my best friend
我愿意一辈子陪你笑,陪你闹,陪你哭,陪你疯。我愿意一起变老,直到牙齿掉光的时候,还能穿着花裙子在床上聊八卦。拥有你真好!如果有一天,你心动了,恋爱了,我不会说什么,只会把祝福送给你;如果有一天,你受伤了,疲倦了,我还是不会说什么,只会把肩膀借给你靠。 生日快乐
给胡小姐的信
亲爱的,没有想到会收到我的来信吧?哈哈哈哈哈如果我们现在还在一起的话,我今年已经22岁了,到了可以领证结婚的时候,步入社会,我也一-定会经历了很多吧,不知道这个时候你会不会在我身边,如果这个生日还在我身边,我一定会特 别高兴,兴奋激动的告诉你,我们可以去领证了!现在是2020年1
致六年后成年的我
成年的我,你好。收到这封信时正是你十八岁的生日,我想,给那时的我写一份信。不要忘记小时候的童真,不要忘记小时候喜欢的人,更不要忘记小时候最好的朋友。现在我喜欢姜楮文,我的长期同桌。现在我在珠江五校六年四班。现在我最好的朋友是十二班的王思琦圆圆。希望多年后你能收到这封幼稚的信,回忆
写给未来的闺蜜
红红,生日快乐,想来今年我应该毕业了我仍然记得五年前我们说好的一定要在一起,一起租房一起工作,在同一个城市,但是!过了这么久也不知道你还会不会记得我,(谁知道有没有撕逼呢)其实你是我生命中非常重要的人,曾经有人和我说过,有闺蜜一点儿也不好,她会妒忌你抢你男朋友的,可是我却回答,没
直到大厦崩塌
蛋 好久不见了 希望你已经猜到我是谁甚是想念其实也没多久 上礼拜刚见过一面 寥寥一眼 你还是美的不食人间烟火 皮肤冰雪将融一般 你们就匆匆回去上占才男神的课了可是好像隔了一个世纪那么远远到我不知道你今天中午和谁坐在哪里吃了什么午饭远到我看不见你精彩的文笔远到我不知道你过的怎么样
2024
今天是2021年12月7日,今年是咱俩一起的第二年了。我不知道,以后还会不会一起。如果,好的话,可能我们俩已经准备结婚了吧。也可能在明年,我们俩就分手了吧。毕竟你父母也不会去接受一个,没房没车的男朋友吧。你在镇江,我在徐州。距离这么远,连房子也没有。分手也在我预料之中吧。或许你也
祝贺你18岁啦
可爱的黄修贤宝宝!祝你生日快乐哦!天天快乐!今天距离高考还有96天哦,也是我们在一起的686天,时间很快,转眼我们也要毕业啦,和宝宝在一起的时光很长也很短暂,很开心也有不愉快,人生亦如此,当你读过这封信,意味着可爱的你也要做一个能独当一面的小大人(只要有我在,你就不能算大人,就是
写给未来的…
小芳: 在过十八天了,我祝你生日快乐,可能现在你正在学校读书看不到,但我还是祝你生日快乐,虽然没有蛋糕,没有礼物。但是,我以后肯定给你补回来,想吃多少块都行。 这么多年,也没人给你过过生日,没人给你唱过生日歌,今天,我来给你唱: 祝你生日快
周星星,生日快乐
这天应该在学校,如果不在学校我也应该会忘记,so,在网上搜了一下之前用过的这个邮箱,已经忘记了这个邮箱会怎么发出去了,上次用这个是2年前了,@&#$*%=不说杂七杂八的了,如果邮箱发了什么杂七杂八的东西,别理了,反正一句:生日快乐( ̄▽ ̄)ԅ(¯ㅂ¯ԅ)(´。✪ω✪。`)(σ′▽
王婕你好
今天我无意间发现有一个写给自己未来的一封信、我想有些东西得说出来才不会留遗憾、记得第一次见到你的时候、你还是一个瘦瘦的、矮矮的小女孩、哈哈、现在已经过去了五年之久、都是成年人了、不知道你过的好不好、五年前的今天我在想我能不能把你娶回家、因为我是真的很喜欢你、毕竟你是我的初恋、从你
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to write it on the birthday itself?
No — a few days before or after is fine. What matters is the delivery date: set it to next year's birthday, and the arrival becomes the ritual.
Is this only for writing to myself?
Not at all. Plenty of people write to a friend or partner ahead of time, scheduled to land on that person's birthday — a gift that was prepared with a whole year to spare.
What if I forget to write the next one?
The best moment to write next year's letter is right after opening this year's — the feelings are still warm. That's exactly how long-time users keep the chain going.
On Your Birthday, Write to Next Year's You
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