The Grad-School Exam Year: Write to the You Who Made It Through

Preparing for the graduate entrance exam is a different kind of hard. In high school, the whole class suffered together; this time it's usually just you — claiming the same library seat at dawn, reciting until closing time, wondering at midnight whether any of it is worth it. From summer through December, exam takers come here to write: to the self who'll see the scores in February, to the self walking out of the final interview, or — for those on their second or third attempt — to a self they simply hope is doing okay, whatever happened. One line shows up in these letters again and again: "I don't know if I'll make it, but I want future-me to remember that I really tried." If you're deep in prep right now, or just walked out of the exam hall, write this moment down. The letters below come from people who walked the same road and chose to share. Read a few, then write yours — the you who already knows the result will be grateful to the you who didn't quit.

How to write this letter

  • Record where you are right now: which chapter you're on, how many practice sets you've done, what time you got up today. Those numbers become the most solid keepsake.
  • Say something to the you who didn't pass, too. What should that person do next? A backup plan written in advance is the kindest safety net.
  • Write down why you chose this school and this field. Whether or not you end up there, that reason deserves to be remembered.
  • Schedule delivery for results day or the first day of grad school — one more reason to see this through.

Real letters from the vault

421 public letters

Frequently Asked Questions

When should I write it, and when should it arrive?

Most people write mid-prep or right after the written exam, and schedule delivery for results day (late February) or the start of grad school (September). Even in the busiest stretch, a letter only takes fifteen minutes.

What if I don't pass — won't the letter hurt to read?

Repeat test-takers often say the opposite: seeing how hard past-you fought brings closure, not pain. You can also write a few lines specifically for the you who didn't make it — comfort only present-you can give.

Isn't writing a letter a distraction from studying?

Treat it as a check-in with yourself: put your goal, your progress, and your fears on paper, and most people come away steadier. Delivery within a year is completely free.

The Grad-School Exam Year: Write to the You Who Made It Through

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